WESTCHESTER COUNTY, N.Y. - TelAve -- Westchester, NY – Vanessa Cardenas, a highly regarded relationship coach in Westchester County and recognized among the best relationship coaches in NYC, has reached a major international milestone. Her Oxford University Talk, "When Doubt Speaks First, And Loudest: What I Lost, What I Found, and the Voice That Changed Everything," has now surpassed 150,000 views, resonating with audiences around the world who are seeking guidance on healing after betrayal, rebuilding trust, and reclaiming self-worth.

In her Oxford Talk, Cardenas shared her personal journey, from early experiences of self-doubt to the devastation of marital betrayal, and introduced the concept of "micro betrayals," the small but powerful relational wounds that erode trust over time. She personified her inner critic as "Nasty Chic" and revealed how negative self-talk intensifies relational pain.

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Through her HOPE Roadmap (Hold On, Pain Ends) and her signature Relationship Reset Experience, Cardenas equips individuals and couples with practical tools to interrupt destructive patterns and move toward authentic, lasting connection.

"Your inner critic may linger, but every time you interrupt the pattern, you take back more of yourself," Cardenas shared in her Oxford appearance. "Healing isn't just about what happened to you. It's about what you choose next, over and over again."

With her private coaching practice based in Westchester and serving clients across NYC, the Tri-State area, and virtually worldwide, Cardenas has become a trusted voice in modern love coaching. The Oxford milestone now positions her among the most-watched relationship speakers in the series, expanding her reach far beyond New York.

About Vanessa Cardenas

Vanessa Cardenas is the founder of Understanding Ear and a certified Relationship Reset Expert and Infidelity Recovery Coach NYC. She specializes in helping individuals and couples heal after betrayal, rebuild trust, and strengthen communication. Drawing from both personal experience and professional expertise, she blends compassion with clear, actionable steps for lasting change.

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Watch the Oxford Talk: https://understandingear.com/vanessa_cardenas_oxford_talks
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